I received a bad news today that my mother has been in extreme pain. I am at my utmost sadness for I won't be able to be there to care for her.
The photo above taken last October 2010 during my visit. This was when we bid goodbye to my parents. My mother who is going to be 74 years old this coming February 13. I love her more than any woman in this world: Eladia Quirante Pascolado Torrefranca.
For the the past few years, Mother has been complaining of stomach pain. We have tried any possible to take her to doctors for many many attempts to no avail. At one time, we were able to get her an appointment to be seen at Don Vicente Soto Hospital but once we were there and her name was called, Mother was nowhere to be found. She has always been scared to be seen with doctors.
I am so baffled why she choose to suffer instead of getting help. I sometimes wonder about it. Just last year, I spent many times to contact her and tried to convince her to go to the doctor. She would agree but then once there she is itching to go home even before the doctor could check on her.
She admitted that she is scared to be seen with doctors and second she feels like she is burden to me financially. My Mother's sickness has been taken a big toll to my Dad. I also love my Dad so dearly and pray for him too to be able to cope this all. He too is 74 years old and also not at his best health wise.
As of this moment, I have sent my 2 beautiful lovely sisters to care for my Mother's need. Hopefully, this time Mother will not refuse. My only wish that GOD will help ease or get rid the pain that my Mother's suffering right now.
If you could drop a quick note of encouragement in comment section I will be forever grateful. Thanks to those who are reading this and including my Mother on your prayer. Your prayers may not save the health or life of my Mother but I believe with all my heart that Prayers is powerful and that can heal her and bring her back into whole and fully healthy. God Bless You All!
Ate au, prayer for you. Hoping your mom will comply to medical management. It will surely make a big difference.
ReplyDeleteGod is there, watching. He will fill in the desires of your heart.
'day ann
Thank you so much Dai Ann for dropping by and included my Mother to your prayers. This will help a lot for her and for me to be able to endure this bitter time. XOXO~Aurora
ReplyDeleteate aurora, gandang gabi po sa iyo...u can do a holy rosary for nine days ate, if u believe in miracle......non-stop 9days prayers ate...fervent prayer is needed to be able that your Mother will open her eyes and mind in terms of medication...Well, we just admit to ourselves that being old enough sometimes our Oldies put aside hospitalization...But by inspiring words to "Lola" pgaling po kayo at wag matigas ang ulo...Ayaw ni Lord ang matigas ang ulo...pagamot po kayo at naway humaba pa ang buhay niyo....God bless your family...I love too my Lola, thanks God my Mamang is still alive and strong sometimes matigas din ang ulo...smile ate...God will do the rest
ReplyDeleteGoodbye Mother! See you in heaven.
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