Ch. 11: Got Lost on the Way but God Got Something for Me



The road still dark but there were few trucks, vans and cars around me. It was a big relief to be driving all by myself during the ungodly hours knowing that I was not alone on the road. At least if my car goes crazy on me, I could get help right away.

I drove many many hours that day. I only stopped to fill up the gas tank and maybe some water to drink and a quick bathroom breaks. In my mind, there was nothing I could think of but to finally get the journey to end. It seems like I have been driving across the state  of TEXAS forever to no end. From New Orleans, Louisiana to Fort Stockton, Texas, it took me 14 hours to drive across. Yet I am nowhere closer to my final destination.

I got me a room  hotel that night at Fort Stockton, Texas and the following day which is Sunday by 4am, I was on the road again.  Oh my Gosh, it's just never ends!

After putting 550 miles that day, I was stuck for 2 hours in a traffic at Tucson, Arizona. I have the urge to use a bathroom but I couldn't get out. So to destruct myself not to think of going to the bathroom, I decided to call one of my old friend from the Philippines who now lives in Scottsdale, Arizona. I was just saying 'hello' to her but she was  very suspicious about my current situation. She didn't ask but she begged me to stop by and see her.


So what the heck and why not! I told her I would stop by to see her since I am going to hit Phoenix, Arizona anyway. I continued on driving westward bound and I missed my turn off. Instead I took the exit 199 from Hi-way-10. I didn't realized that I was merging Hi-way-8.


As I drove along the dark Hi-way 8 with no turn-off or turn around, I started to get suspicious that I was lost. 200 miles into still  I couldn't see any turn off until I saw a big billboard sign 'Welcome to YUMA' huh What! I was so dizzy. I feel so DUH!


But take note, it was already 11pm. I was hitting 49 hours into driving across the humongous land of United States all by myself without sleeping since I left cheater Blue Eyes from Pensacola, Florida. Not to mention, that this was my 4th night since my returned from the Philippines. You can only imagine how in the world a girl like me just got back from a long journey across the pacific ocean only to return to her adopted country and found out that her journey did not end there. Yet, she still managed to drive across the United States without sleeping and eating.  


I was really crashed with the whole situation  and this was probably the whole reason why my body produce too much adrenaline but of course it didn't last. At this point, I was really exhausted. I told my old friend to not expect me because I will not arrive  that night. 


I got me a motel room in Yuma that night. Got a good 4 hours sleep which is enough and by daylight I headed back to Phoenix to meet my old friend.

This is how I ended up living in Arizona. Which is not plan at all!

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Pork Chop in Gravy Sautee with Onions

Pork Chop Sautee with Onions
It has been a while since I blog about some of my cooking recipe. I thought this Pork Chop and Bakchoy were delicious so I would like to share this to you guys. 

Over the weekend, I was bored and decided to cook a nice dinner for my family. When I cook, I really dont make any plans on what to cook. It's kind of just whatever  was on my freezer and fridge. So I grabbed the Pork Chop from my freezer and let it thawed. I also grabbed a bunch of fresh bakchoy. Actually, this one was called "Suchoy". I can only find this one at the Asian Market.

So here's the Ingredients for PORK CHOP read below; 
Ingredients:
  • 1 lbs. thinly sliced Pork Chop
  • 1 yellow big onion (sliced)
  • 1 pk gravy
  • 4 cloves of garlic (minced)
  • a pinch of salt and pepper (optional: replaced with McCormick Grill Mates seasoning)
  • a dash of dried basil/parsley.
  • 3 tbsp Olive Oil

Preparations:

In a heated pan, brown minced garlic with olive oil. Sprinkle the pan with dried basil/parsley (your choice, I used both), salt and pepper or McCormick Grill Steak Seasons. Lay the Pork Chop and sprinkle seasoning on top. let it brown both sides.

Now set the pork aside. Brown the sliced yellow onions on the same pan. Add 1 cup water, pour the sachet of gravy and keep stirring till it's thicken. When done, pour the gravy/sauce on top of Pork Chop. You can garnish it with fresh cilantro or basil. Enjoy!


My step-son Jayden were crazy about the Pork Chop. He was picking the onions first and he thought that Onions were stingy and bitter but when he had a first bite he thought it was Superlicious. He also, thought that Adobo'ng Bakchoy was delicious. He had a full serving of it. (I used the Mama's Best Toyomansi Soy Sauce)

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Adobo'ng Bakchoy
Ingredients for Bakchoy:

  • A bunch of sukchoy/bakchoy/ or any kind of leafy dark green vegetables.
  • 4 cloves of garlic minced.
  • 3 tbsp of Mamas' Best Toyomansi
  • a dash of ground black pepper
  • 2 tbsp olive oil

Preparation:

In a heated pan, brown minced garlic. Add sukchoy/bakchoy, stir and season it with Toyomansi. Add a dash of black ground pepper. Turn the heat off and cover the pan. The steam will cook the veggies. Enjoy!

Drop a line or comments below if you have tried this recipe and tell me what you think?


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Ch. 10: Trials and Test of Times


Well, I am not the kind of girl that would tolerate a cheating boyfriend.  I had accepted that he cheated on me but that doesn't mean I would stay. I didn't blame myself for the whole shenanigan but definitely I wouldn't loose my self-esteem either over a cheating boyfriend. 

I had to go to the the Philippines for just 3 months and this was his trials that life has given him but obviously he failed the test or should I say the temptation was too strong for him to refused even if it means losing his bride-to-be! Letting go of him was the best decision I have ever made.

Let's go back to the continuation of the previous chapter, at this time I just passed Mobile, Alabama. It was only an hour since I left home. Blue Eyes has been calling me a number of times but I intended not to answer his call. I immediately contacted AT&T to dropped the second line of my family plan which is Blue Eyes phone. I didn't have nothing to do with him anymore.  


By 1am Saturday, this was only 3 hours since I left home. I have noticed that there was only me, myself and I driving heading towards Hi-way 10 West. I was already way  passed downtown New Orleans. I was so scared because it was totally dark. I wanted to continue on driving but also was afraid that I may run out of gas or the car would go idle in the wee hours where no one around. So I decided to find a motel at the next stop.


From far away, I sighted  a dim light that seems to look like a small town. When I got there, it was a rinky-dink town and found a dingy motel. I had no choice but to take it. I would not want to be in the road alone. While inside the shabby motel, Blue Eyes had relentlessly been calling me all night long but this time he was using the land line since I had AT&T disconnected his cellphone. He must have gone crazy for not being able to talk to me since I left him. 

I finally decided to speak to him. He was asking me what the heck was going on with me and where was I and what I was doing at this very late moment. Simply I told him in a calm voice that I was done with him and nothing he can do to make me come back,  and I was not going to deal with his deceitful lying mouth. I told him everything about the hard evidence that I've found that he indeed was cheating on me. I did not want to hear any explanation from him...click!

I hung up on him and it felt so great to be able to stick up for yourself and not letting cheaters manipulate you or use you for their benefits or self greediness.


At 330am, you would think that I would be so tired and ready to go to bed finally but oh no! My adrenaline shoot way up high after having conversation with Blue Eyes. Instead I got up, took shower and hit the road again by 4am. I haven't had any food in my stomach since I left home but for some reason, I wasn't even feeling the hungriness nor thirstiness.

Mind you, that this was only 3 days since my returned from the Philippines. I should be having a jet lag, tiredness, lack of concentration or motivation but what happened to me was a phenomenal. Too many things happens all at once and It was overwhelming.

Unconsciously, my body and brain were fighting for it and maybe due to the fact that I had been in the darkest days before and it seem to have been able to control my feelings or emotion for the second time around. I knew I was hurting, aching, my soul was bleeding. I was experiencing a feeling of great sorrow and I wanted not to feel it but I am human who can feel pain because my heart just got broken.


I was on the road again. Was not really sure if I could reach to  my destination which is California of which still 2200 miles away.  

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